Big things have happened to our family over the last few months.
We moved into our forever home.
Xander began his first year of school.
We got a dog.
And.....Alex, my husband made the move to 2nd shift after 5 years of working on 3rd.
So, after 5 years and 2 new kids added to the mix, I am no longer a 3rd shift widow.
What does that mean for me?
It means that instead of sleeping alone every night, being the only one to care for and get up with a sick child or be there when someone has a bad dream, Alex & I now share that responsibility.
Now I get to sleep next to my husband every night and wake him up when someone starts to cry.
It also means that he gets to spend more time with the 2 little ones during the day.
The downfall to all of this?
I am now doing the 'single mom' thing 5 nights a week.
2nd shift leaves me being the only parent in sight from 1:30pm - 10:30pm.
That means I am attending every event, conference, meeting for each kid.
I am also a personal taxi, tutor, and chef.
Head diaper changer, kid bather, and bed tucker inner.
Yes, my life has been crazy hectic since we made this change but I love being able to sleep next to my husband every night and have coffee with him every morning.
Do any of you have a significant other that works the night shift? How do you make everything work?
My daughter was going through the same thing and now her hubby gets to share all of the kiddy going-ons too. I think she likes it better this way too. dwelchert@yahoo.com
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